FAQ: Why don’t you guys just adopt?

Right? You get asked that too? On our sweet and treacherous surrogacy journey this seems to be the predominant question we get from most people and we understand how a gay couple would get that a lot. We believe that adoption is a noble option, but for us at this time we’ve decided to go through IVF (in vitro fertilization) and a surrogate mother. So, in our first installment of FAQ, here’s our answer 🙂